この記事の概要
The problem of premature ejaculation refers to a variety of problems arising from the inability to control ejaculation in sexual intercourse and the inability to have satisfactory intercourse. It is a problem that many men have and affects individuals and partnerships in a variety of ways. The following is a description of specific problems related to premature ejaculation.
1. Impact on Partner Relationships
Premature ejaculation can decrease sexual satisfaction and negatively affect the relationship with the partner. The inability to have satisfying intercourse can lead to frustration and strained relationships for the partner. In addition, if there is a lack of communication with the partner, misunderstandings and frustrations can build up and increase tension in the relationship.
2. Low Self-esteem and Self-confidence
Men who suffer from premature ejaculation often lose confidence in their sexual performance. The inability to control ejaculation can lead to low self-esteem, as they feel unable to satisfy their partners. This can lead to increased pressure and anxiety about the sexual act itself, and a vicious cycle that further aggravates premature ejaculation.
3.Increased Stress and Anxiety
Premature ejaculation is often a cause of stress and anxiety about sexual performance. The situation can be further aggravated by strong feelings of tension, especially before and during sexual intercourse. Stress and anxiety have a strong effect on sexual function and can further aggravate premature ejaculation.
4. Pressure for Sexual Activity
Men who suffer from premature ejaculation often feel undue pressure to perform sexually. Each time they have intercourse, the expectation that “this time I must satisfy him” increases, which in turn may lead to poor performance. This pressure not only worsens premature ejaculation, but also causes avoidance of sexual activity.
5.Difficulty in Open Communication with Partners
Many men who suffer from premature ejaculation find it difficult to communicate their problems to their partners. Because they are shy or resistant to discussing sexual problems, they tend to keep the problem to themselves. This makes their relationship with their partner more complicated and makes it difficult for them to take the first steps toward solving the problem of premature ejaculation.
6. Avoidance of Sexual Activity
Men who suffer from premature ejaculation may have an increased tendency to avoid sexual activity itself. The shame and fear of premature ejaculation may lead them to avoid sexual contact with their partners, which can lead to a cooling of the relationship. Avoidance of sexual activity often has a negative impact on the partnership and causes additional problems.
7. Fear of repeated premature ejaculation
Once a person experiences premature ejaculation, there is a strong fear that the same problem will repeat itself the next time sexual intercourse occurs. This fear can lead to premature ejaculation again due to the pressure and increased tension. This is often a major psychological burden for men suffering from premature ejaculation.
8. Fear of Premature Ejaculation Treatment
Many men suffer from premature ejaculation but are not ready for treatment. They may feel embarrassed to discuss their sexual problems with a doctor or specialist, or they may be concerned about whether the treatment is right for them. There is also concern that treatment may be temporary and not lead to a fundamental solution.
9. Social Pressures and Misunderstandings
Social misconceptions and expectations that men should maintain sexual activity for long periods of time can make the problem of premature ejaculation even worse. These pressures often cause men to blame themselves excessively and feel shame for their premature ejaculation problems. Social expectations of sexual activity place a great psychological burden on men who suffer from premature ejaculation.
10. Unable to take the first step toward treatment.
Many men have problems with premature ejaculation but are hesitant to engage in treatment. They often feel embarrassed to discuss their sexual problems with others and are highly resistant to consulting a physician. However, premature ejaculation is a problem experienced by many men and can be significantly improved with treatment.
Conclusion
Premature ejaculation is a serious problem that afflicts men in many ways, including partnership, self-esteem, and stress. However, premature ejaculation is a treatable problem and can be improved with the right approach. A combination of treatments such as medication, behavioral therapy, counseling, and lifestyle modifications can often significantly reduce the problem of premature ejaculation. As a first step, it is important to gain a better understanding of premature ejaculation and to consult with a physician or specialist.
